Comments on: Jacket Fail: The Ongoing Oddysey of Winter Coat Meltdowns https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/ Mom Smarter! Thu, 09 Jan 2025 21:19:49 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: The Jenny Evolution https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-119041 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-119041 In reply to 40yearsaspedteacher.

Yep… We definitely do that. But it’s easier said than done when it comes to having your child wear it.

]]> By: 40yearsaspedteacher https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-118701 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-118701 Sometimes I think it would be easier to purchase several styles of what you are shopping for and let your child try on the clothing in the comfort of home, and return the clothes that don’t work out. It might seem like a lot of work, but if it prevents meltdowns or tears, it is worth it.

]]> By: Mary Varville-Rodriguez https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-110302 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-110302 In reply to Jenrose.

Have you experimented with foot massage as a pre-shoe sensory cue? She may like firm pressure using pressure points, small circular motions, and/or pressure using the palm or your hand against the top or bottom of her feet. Massage oil or her favorite lotion can be used unless contraindicated by her pediatrician or therapist. I’ve had some success with infants/toddlers who needed a little proprioceptive input prior to wearing socks/shoes before outdoor activities. We also had a “transitional” song to go along with the bare foot to shoe activity. Checking with an Occupational Therapist who specializes in sensory integration could be helpful. It may take a while to figure out what works for your daughter. I’d love to hear when you find what works so I can add it to my own bag of tricks. Best Wishes! (World of Writer Mom) https://www.facebook.com/writermomadvocate/

]]> By: Jennifer Hughes https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-96887 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-96887 In reply to Jenrose.

It sounds like some serious tactile defensiveness…. I know there are parents out there that have probably had this same thing. Have you thought of asking in our parent discussion group on Facebook…. http://www.facebook.com/groups/voicesofspd

]]> By: Jenrose https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-96884 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-96884 My kid’s issue is shoes. She has been barefoot at school, home, day camp, etc. for the past six months. It’s getting cold out. She literally kicks so hard and so fast that it is impossible to get shoes on her. Impossible. Like, people who specialize in special needs kids can’t even do it.

No clue what we’re going to do.

]]> By: autismredo https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-100 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-100 I started taking my DD with me to feel, try on and pick out her own clothes and coats a couple years ago. We go alone, just me and her. I always make sure we have hours to spare. She touches and eventually tries on a few chosen ones and then usually settles with the one she feels best in. I, also, have sensory processing problems at 39 years old so I know what she is going through. It is helpful to buy something soft and a size bigger seems to not constrain my arms as much. Also, I try to steer away from collars for myself because it bunches at the back of my neck. It is really hard to drive when I have these things interfering and can ruin my day. It’s hard to refocus after a sensory attack by clothing. It’s best if his energies are spent on school work and just being in school than wasted on a coat. I’m slowly learning to pick our battles here and there are so many choices for winter wear that it is not one I fight. Often I can find a way around most of my sensory issues and my DD’s if I try. Be creative! Always remain calm(difficult I know).

]]> By: muddymonkeysmama https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-99 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-99 Reblogged this on The Sensory Spectrum and commented:

Thought I would share my own ongoing sensory journey with you all.

]]> By: mariner2mother https://mommyevolution.com/jacket-fail-the-ongoing-oddysey-of-winter-coat-meltdowns/#comment-98 https://jennyevolution.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-98 I hear ya. I hate it when we get snow and I have to get Little Man (who’s not so little these days) to put on a winter coat, hat and mittens. Luckily, if I find a soft fleecy hat, he’ll wear it. But mittens or gloves never stay on for long. Getting older has brought more tolerance to winter coats. How does Vman do with layers? Perhaps a soft knit long sleeved shirt with a heavy fleece lined sweatshirt type jacket with a down vest on top? That would give him more arm mobility. And if you find them at a local thrift store, you won’t be out a lot of $ if he won’t wear them. (Got a fleece lined hoodie at Walmart the other day for $15, that my son loves.)

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