Comments on: Stop Saying I Don’t Know How You Do It https://mommyevolution.com/i-dont-know-how-you-do-it/ Mom Smarter! Fri, 10 Jan 2025 00:39:43 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Mother of 3 https://mommyevolution.com/i-dont-know-how-you-do-it/#comment-118536 https://mommyevolution.com/?p=29061#comment-118536 What an honest post! I love this. And while I don’t have kids with special needs and I can’t possibly know or understand exactly where you are coming from I do think it’s pretty safe to say you are not failing. I think all of us so easily see our faults and those areas we could do better but I think part of what you need to hear when people do say “I don’t know you do it” is that they are impressed with all of your successes. Your kids are fed, they’re clothed, you are making sure their needs are met– that’s HUGE!

]]> By: Full Spectrum Mama https://mommyevolution.com/i-dont-know-how-you-do-it/#comment-118476 https://mommyevolution.com/?p=29061#comment-118476 PREACH.

I want to send this to everyone I know.

It’s so SO true – all of it – from the “actually, I am NOT doing it all” to the blog negligence to the self care thing: I can’t stand it when people who have a very different reality talk about what I need to do. what i NEED is a year at a spa. Nota pedicure. And since I can’t have the year at the spa I am going to Get Through These Next 12 Hours, baby. And I’ll mostly be thinking about my kids during that time, because if I don’t figure some stuff out it’s not that they are going to not get into Yale it’s that they will end up homeless, ok?

Whew. Guess this post brought up some…feelings?!

Thanks and love,
Full Spectrum Mama

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