Yes… but the coach was a fellow dad. And honestly, even professional coaches we’ve known haven’t known how to handle things.

Absolutely. Every little victory does count, Polly. And yes, some of the things I expect to upset my sensory kiddo don’t. And the things I don’t think about are the things that knock him off of his game.

He was comfortable at practice with the same moms and dads, but the games really threw him off, with a different crowd watching. I would never have guessed that was the reason he would be so upset. It reminded me that I always needed to ask him what the issue was, and not just assume.

Fast forward nine years, and he just completed his first season of middle school football. We were all shocked he wanted to do it. He had a successful season.

Middle school itself has been rough and his sensory issues are in full swing on some days, but every little victory counts with these kiddos. And they are stronger than anyone will ever know.

I am, too. Character building is just as important… and learning that it’s okay not to like something is important, too.

But Tae Kwon Do is such an awesome sport! We tried but it just didn’t fit…. combined with ADHD it wasn’t the right mix. And you’re right about trying to fit too much in. I’ve gotten much better about saying no to things because the transitions are so painful.

So true! You have to celebrate the successes — which includes getting through a basketball season. And I always encourage my boys to try new things. Sometimes they surprise me and themselves!

Ha! Definitely succeeded in our own way! We’ve had lots of success with soccer and gymnastics. Vman has been doing gymnastics since he was 1 and he absolutely loves it.